Enhancing Your Relationship Goals

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Life Coaching Secrets For a Long and Happy relationship

Relationship goals are all about making change, but more specifically, positive and lasting change that you desire.  

Life Coaching is the fastest and most immersive way to transform a breakdown or a break up into a breakthrough! 

It doesn't matter what stage of a relationship you find yourself in. If you are not navigating and aligning your compass with your goals you might end up with a love on the rocks. 

Everything you need to achieve the relationship you desire is within your reach. It is only the limitations in your thinking that hold you back. Albert Einstein once said that "We are boxed in by the boundary conditions of our thinking." 

You can open doorways to new opportunities, new inspirations and expand your thinking to attract and create a life beyond measure.

Goals For When A Relationship Breaks Down  

Life and Business Coach Anthony Robbins says "if your relationship isn't growing its dying." 

You got to have relationship goals for you and your partner. Which is another way of saying you must be invested in your relationship. Otherwise you could be heading for a relationship breakdown or a break up. If your priorities are all outside your relationship you have to anticipate the consequences. 

You've already lost interest. Maybe you didn't even realise because of life happening all around you, but ultimately the damage will have been done and your already partner knows. 

The truth about relationships is that they need the nourishment of your attention. You either pay attention or pay the ultimate price. 

If this sounds a little, or even a lot like where you are at right now, these pages may offer some idea's, help. or even inspiration to get you back on track:

Relationship Breakdown

Red Flags In A Relationship

How to save a relationship 

Stress in a Relationship

Goals For When A Relationship Breaks Up 

There is no denying it, relationship break up can tear us apart at the seams. Not only emotionally but physically, financially and spiritually.

While this isn't true for every break up, the idea of making relationship goals may seem like the furthest thing from your mind.

My wish is that it isn't true for you. 

These pages may help lighten the load and the mood: 

The Stages of Breaking Up

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Divorce Advice

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Impact Of Divorce

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How To Survive Divorce

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Stages Of Divorce

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Coping with a relationship breakup

How To Break Up

Goals For Getting Over A Relationship

Have you ever heard people talking about past relationships and ex's as if they were all the same person. It is the universal perspective. 


All men are ...


All women are ...


They were just like ... I thought it would be different this time ... Why are they all the same?


The thing is there was always one constant in those relationships. The one person was always there. Maybe you have noticed that when you point a finger out at someone or something, there are always three curled and pointing right back at you.


If the problem is with "everyone" maybe it isn't "everyone" who needs to change. Have you ever looked inwards and changed your perceptions but then noticed how everything around you changed? 


We always need to work on ourselves. Work on our goals and what we need. Not what we think the people around us need.


Happy spouse equals happy house. Win-Win. 


Here are a few pages to relight your fire and put a smile back where it belongs.

COMING SOON!

Why People break up
Happy after a break up

relationship Goals For The Next Level

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How much we long to be celebrating those blissful moments with the most amazing partner?

It doesn't matter if this is the start of a new relationship where everything is wonderful or whether you have been together for a while and overcome all kinds of challenges. Nothing can shake your high spirit.

The sheer excitement of moving in, or moving up together. Expanding upwards or even outwards! Making a brand new commitment. Shifting focus and energy to being a couple rather than being single.

Even the good times can bowl us over if we are unprepared for them. Unexpected things can impact us in unexpected ways. Sometimes surprises can be magical and we need to celebrate them with every nerve. every fibre and every cell in our body. These pages will help you celebrate a return to love:

Core Values In A Relationship

Your core values in a relationship are not something you were born with. Gaining clarity on your values is a huge step in achieving your relationship goals.

Being In A Loving Relationship

Goals For Finding A Relationship 

If you are not in a relationship and you don't want to be in a relationship, coaching probably isn't for you, but that doesn't mean you wouldn't have any relationship related goals. But for everyone else who is not in a relationship and wants to be, these pages could be just for you:  

starting a new relationship

Does the idea of starting a new relationship fill you with excitement or dread? Whilst it might sound attractive for some, it isn't for everyone.

In fact, for many the idea of dating, or even flirting with someone new is absolutely terrifying!

Just know, that wherever you are on the scale, you're not alone! If you are ready for a new relationship but are still anxious you may be overthinking things. Can you even visualise the early stages in a new relationship without breaking a cold sweat? 

How do I find Love

Bring love into your life

The Art of Creating Relationship Goals

C - Crystal Clarity 

R - Realistic and Inspiring

E - End Step. Final piece of evidence

A - As if Now. Present tense.

T - Towards (Positively stated)

E - Ethical. For you and for others

You know things are about to change, but maybe you just don't know how. 

Maybe you are thinking about being barefoot on the beach in Bali with your partner in the evening, staring at all the stars in the night sky, feeling the cool soft sand against your feet, and listening to the waves stroking the shoreline? 

Maybe you are dreaming about meeting that special person to journey through life's adventure with. 

Or perhaps you have hit the plateau and want to re light the fire to climb to new heights of ecstasy and joy. 

Don't waste your life wishing relationships were easier. Empower yourself to be better! 

Write your relationship goals in the way you want them to occur. 

Use the CREATE model for planning and thinking.


It is now     ...    and I am / I have   ...  
see it, hear it, feel it,
Smell it, taste it, sense it! 

Your Top Five High Priority Relationship Goals

Some people think they need couples therapy or even couples counselling to overcome their differences, others might seek out the marriage guidance advisor. 

The trouble with therapy is you don't really focus on your relationship goals. You don't set a specific outcome to achieve. People can be in therapy for years talking about relationship problems, but that might be great for the therapist, but not so great for the client. Especially if you prefer a different approach.

Now I am not saying that therapy is a bad thing, but I am saying some people are looking for different approaches.  Maybe life coaching could be a better approach for you. 

Why not start out with free coaching consultation? (see life coaching links below)

While you think about that lets get to work on your relationship goals right now. 

Using the CREATE model above take your favourite journal, or note pad, or even your favourite tablet device and start writing out what your most important goals are in your relationship. 

It doesn't matter if you write more than five. You can re-order and re-arrange until you are certain you have your top five. 

Make the space inspiring for you. The right lighting, the right music, the right ambience.

And why not enjoy the process while you are at it. You're worth it!

10 Reasons For Having Inspiring Relationship Goals:

1. You want a boost of energy and drive to focus on your relationship 

2. You want to see beyond a breaking point that is affecting your focus, drive and success in other area's.

3. Focusing on what you want means you are now more likely to achieve it 

4. You want to expand and express your inner self 

5. You want confidence when it comes to the opposite sex

6. You want to inspire more passion and excitement in your life

7. You are at the end a relationship want to look beyond the heartache to recalibrate

8. Your relationship goals are critical to surviving relationship abuse

9. You want to heal past experiences that are holding you back

10. You already know the power of attraction is triggered by writing inspiring goals

Visualise Your Relationship Goals 

"To Know, And Not To Do, Is Not Yet To Know."

 - Chinese Proverb

Research studies conducted amongst a student population showed that only 3% of the group had actually made any clearly written goals. Years later, this 3% were worth more individually than the other 97% put together! If you don't know what your target is, how you ever gonna hit it?

What’s more, and you want to make a note of this, most of the 3% were actually worth far more than they had even predicted when writing their goals. Your future really is in your hands, so decide now, are you really invested in your relationship success?


To Your Success!

Tony

The Relationship Breakthrough Coach

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Relationship Breakthrough Coach provides life coaching for men, women and couples in Mossley, Tameside, Uppermill, Saddleworth, and all surrounding areas. I also work with english speaking international clients via Skype and Zoom.

Life coaching is a journey of self discovery. Your journey starts with your next step. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the next step. The power of life coaching will unlock your personal power to overcome obstacles that show up while you get to work on your dreams.


Where Will Your Next Steps Take You?

I sincerely hope you found what you were looking for.

I am adding new content all the time but if you have any idea's or topics you would like to see, get in touch and let me know.

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