Relationship goals are all about making change, but more specifically, positive and lasting change that you desire. Relationships are places where if you are not growing, you are at risk of breaking down, or breaking up.
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It doesn't matter what stage of a relationship you find yourself in. If you are not navigating and aligning your compass with your goals you might end up with a love on the rocks.
Everything you need to achieve the relationship you desire is within your reach. It is only the limitations in your thinking that hold you back. Albert Einstein once said that "We are boxed in by the boundary conditions of our thinking."
You can open doorways to new opportunities, new inspirations and expand your thinking to attract and create a life beyond measure.
Your relationship goals should be inspiring for you and also benefit your partner. That keeps your relationship alive and growing.
World famous Life Coach Anthony Robbins says "if your relationship isn't growing its dying."
Which is another way of saying you must be invested in your relationship. Otherwise you could be heading for a relationship breakdown or a break up.
If your priorities are all outside your relationship you have to anticipate the consequences.
You've already lost track. Maybe you didn't even realise it because of life happening all around you, but ultimately the damage will have been done and your already partner knows.
The truth about relationships is that they need the nourishment of your attention. You either pay attention or pay the ultimate price.
If this sounds a little, or even a lot like where you are at right now, these pages may offer some idea's, help. or even inspiration to get you back on track:
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There is no denying it, breaking up with a loved one can tear us apart at the seams. Not only emotionally but physically, financially and spiritually. While this isn't true for every break up, the idea of making relationship goals may seem like the furthest thing from your mind. My wish is that it isn't true for you.
It is critically important to prioritise your relationship goals. Recognise the stages you will go through before you can be happy after a break up.
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That's all well for splitting up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. What happens if you are married and going your separate ways?
What kind of impact will it have? How much will it cost? Which way should you turn? What are the stages of divorce I need to understand before the divorce costs spiral out of control.
Check out these free life coaching articles to discover the advice that many divorcee's wish they had been given. Ask better questions. Seek and you will find. But be careful what you ask for.
It's OK. You got this.
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Why do people talk about past relationships as if their ex's were all the same person?
It is the universal perspective.
All men are ...
All women are ...
They were just like ... I thought it would be different this time ... Why are they all the same?
The thing is there was always one constant in those relationships. The one person was always there. Maybe you have noticed that when you point a finger out at someone or something, there are always three curled and pointing right back at you.
If the problem is with "everyone" maybe it isn't "everyone" who needs to change. Have you ever looked inwards and changed your perceptions but then noticed how everything around you changed?
We always need to work on ourselves. Work on our goals and what we need. Not what we think the people around us need.
Happy spouse equals happy house. Win-Win.
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How much we long to be celebrating those blissful moments with the most amazing partner?
It doesn't matter if this is the start of a new relationship where everything is wonderful or whether you have been together for a while and overcome all kinds of challenges. Nothing can shake your high spirit.
The sheer excitement of moving in, or moving up together. Expanding upwards or even outwards! Making a brand new commitment. Shifting focus and energy to being a couple rather than being single.
Even the good times can bowl us over if we are unprepared for them. Unexpected things can impact us in unexpected ways.
Sometimes surprises can be magical and we need to celebrate them with every nerve. every fibre and every cell in our body.
Your core values in a relationship are not something you were born with. Gaining clarity on your values is a huge step in achieving your relationship goals.
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If you are not in a relationship and you don't want to be in a relationship, life coaching probably isn't for you, but that doesn't mean you wouldn't have any relationship related goals.
Does the idea of starting a new relationship fill you with excitement or dread? Whilst it might sound attractive for some, it isn't for everyone.
Just know, that wherever you are on the scale, you're not alone! If you are ready to create goals for a new relationship but are still anxious you may be overthinking things.
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You know things are about to change, but maybe you just don't know how.
Maybe you are thinking about being barefoot on the beach in Bali with your partner in the evening, staring at all the stars in the night sky, feeling the cool soft sand against your feet, and listening to the waves stroking the shoreline?
Maybe you are dreaming about meeting that special person to journey through life's adventure with.
Or perhaps you have hit the plateau and want to re light the fire to climb to new heights of ecstasy and joy.
Don't waste your life wishing relationships were easier. Empower yourself to be better!
Write your relationship goals in the way you want them to occur.
Use the CREATE model for planning and thinking.
Some people think they need couples therapy or even couples counselling to overcome their differences, others might seek out the marriage guidance advisor.
The trouble with therapy is you don't really focus on your relationship goals. You don't set a specific outcome to achieve. People can be in therapy for years talking about relationship problems, but that might be great for the therapist, but not so great for the client. Especially if you prefer a different approach.
Now I am not saying that therapy is a bad thing, but I am saying some people are looking for different approaches. Maybe life coaching could be a better approach for you.
Why not start out with free coaching consultation? (see life coaching links below)
While you think about that lets get to work on your relationship goals right now.
Using the CREATE model above take your favourite journal, or note pad, or even your favourite tablet device and start writing out what your most important goals are in your relationship.
It doesn't matter if you write more than five. You can re-order and re-arrange until you are certain you have your top five.
Make the space inspiring for you. The right lighting, the right music, the right ambience.
And why not enjoy the process while you are at it. You're worth it!
1. You want a boost of energy and drive to focus on your relationship
2. You want to see beyond a breaking point that is affecting your focus, drive and success in other area's.
3. Focusing on what you want means you are now more likely to achieve it
4. You want to expand and express your inner self
5. You want confidence when it comes to the opposite sex
6. You want to inspire more passion and excitement in your life
7. You are at the end a relationship want to look beyond the heartache to recalibrate
8. Your relationship goals are critical to surviving relationship abuse
9. You want to heal past experiences that are holding you back
10. You already know the power of attraction is triggered by writing inspiring goals
Research studies conducted amongst a student population showed that only 3% of the group had actually made any clearly written goals. Years later, this 3% were worth more individually than the other 97% put together! If you don't know what your target is, how you ever gonna hit it?
What’s more, and you want to make a note of this, most of the 3% were actually worth far more than they had even predicted when writing their goals. Your future really is in your hands, so decide now, are you really invested in your relationship success?
There is so much value waiting for you to tap into here. Take your time. Read what you will, but don't leave your Relationship Goals too long.
Your dreams are waiting for you.
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Life coaching is a journey of self discovery. Your journey starts with the next step. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the next step.
The power of life coaching will unlock your personal power to overcome obstacles that show up while you get to work on your dreams.
I sincerely hope you find what you were looking for.