The power of words to enhance or encumber your relationships must never be underestimated.
Some say mightier than the sword, your words are like scalpels. In the hand of a heart surgeon they create life saving miracles but they will strike fear in the hearts of onlookers in the hands of a street gang member!
Find inspiration, strength, direction, focus, gratitude, or forgiveness. Find love in every word...
Words are powerful. Ever heard someone say mind your P's and Q's? It is no surprise that Don Miguel Ruiz reflects on being impeccable with your words in the best selling self help book, "The Four Agreements".
I hope these loving quotes will show you ways to use words with more precision, more passion, and more power.
Words are keys to your heart and soul. The way to a mans heart could very well be food, but what is point of cooking up a feast to find the door locked.
If the power of words in these loving quotes serve you in some small way then I am blessed to have been at your service. Please share these inspiring loving quotes far and wide that they may enhance not only your relationship's but your friends and families too.
Love is different for each of us, but for all of us love comes from caring about our world, and everything in it. The language of love is the subject of Gary Chapmans best seller "The Five Love Languages" but it isn't just about the power of words.
"Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver." Carl Jung
Even in the throws of breaking up you still have capacity to love the other person. It doesn't mean you are "In Love" with them, it simply means you care about your future and theirs. Your relationship with an ex can be transformed with the right words and right mind. Carrying anger towards an ex is like drinking poison and expecting them to suffer. Begin with forgiveness, and clear your energetic body of all negativity toward them. (More about the Power of Forgiveness here)
"Be happy, no matter what others may be doing. Practice feeling good, despite them. And before you know it, you'll begin to love them all, because the only reason you don't love them, is that you're using them as your excuse to not feel good." - Esther Hicks
If we are all one in this incredible infinite universe and you cannot love another it means there is still a part that you do not love in yourself. Everything outside of you can only exist because of everything inside you. By experiencing the power of letting go, you are simply allowing another part of you to be free.
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." - E.M. Forster
Love yourself in all you do and no word of chastisement, put down, or personal attack can ever hurt you. Sticks and stones may break bones. Love yourself completely, and your fears disappear. Love others completely and you are free. Let go.
Practice by using the power of kind words to yourself instead of beating yourself up all the time. Meditate on positive words. Practice the cultivating loving kindness towards yourself and others.
The vivid colours of a sunset, the soothing scent of a flower, the infectious smile of a baby, the unconditional love of a kind stranger. Begin to notice these throughout your day. Practice the joy of paying it forward yourself. Your suffering will ease.
"The only people with whom you should try to get even are those who have helped you." - John E. Southard
Day by day, work on loving more. Make love your number one priority. Sow the seeds of love and nourish them. Over time they may yield a bounty of golden memories.
"Love is not a seasonal flower, it takes years to grow." - Osho
Whatever you want to achieve in life, in your career, your health, and your relationships, focus is key. And not just in the beginning. You must know your outcome and maintain a course toward it.
Have you noticed how some people go through a break up and think "It's time to get fit, clear the debt, start over?." Put your mind on your health, wealth and your relationships now.
“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve” - Napoleon Hill
Henry Ford suggested, "whether you believe you can, or believe you cant, you are probably right." This is a great quote for deciding what to focus on right now, because wherever you apply the power of focus you will see results in that area. If you don't focus on what it takes to enjoy loving relationship, how will you even notice when it happens? People aren't just lucky. They just know what they want.
“Luck is the marriage of preparation and opportunity” - Chinese Proverb
Pace yourself, but stretch yourself just enough to expand your beliefs. Do this consistently. Focus on what is your number one priority daily and do something towards achieving it each day. A miraculous opportunity will present itself before you if you are able to notice it. Are you prepared to pay the price to accept these gifts?
"Most people struggle with life balance simply because they haven't paid the price to decide what is really important to them" - Stephen Covey
If you focused on improving by just ten percent each month, by the end of the year what would you have?
Think of it this way: starting with £100, say, at the end of month one you now have £110. By the end of month twelve you would have £314. Thats more than a 300 per cent improvement! Thats the power of compounding! And, thats why applying the power of words to your focus is critical!
“There are two things to aim for in life; first get what you want, and after that, enjoy it” - Logan Pearsall Smith
But here is the small print: You have to take action! You cant just sit there saying "I already know all this!"
If you heard it before and you are still pondering, you haven't applied at the level you need to change your life for the better. Thats where life coaching can help you transform your current break up or break down situation into a breakthrough!
“Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do” - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
When you apply, you get results. When you get results, you review and make adjustments, and then apply again!
"In every trial, let understanding fight for you" - Buddha
No failure, only feedback! Keep your number one priority in mind. Use powerful inspiring words to keep you focused. Then use the power of compounding as you take action towards your goals.
"Too many people spend too much time and energy dreaming about their work and little or no time working on their dreams." - Tony Healer, The Relationship Breakthrough Coach
You may have heard or even read Dr Wayne Dyers Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life, but are you aware of the power of words to change your thoughts?
Your words hold the power to build or destroy relationships. Your words hold the power to gain support and gain enemies.The words you use with yourself hold the power to heal and transform, or cripple you.
Practice the attitude of gratitude daily, it will eliminate your fears, it will ease stress, and it will bring you back into balance. When your words relate to lack or pain or hurt and blame notice the impact in your body. Add some of these powerful loving quotes into your daily affirmations, and they will transform your thoughts about the world around you.
"Feed your faith and your doubts will starve to death." - Amy Beals Carter
All you really need, is within you now. Think about it. Your heart beats, you blood flows, and your lungs absorb all the oxygen you need to survive without you even being consciously aware of it. Imagine having to consciously control all of you bodily functions! You couldn't do it.
If you choose to apply the power of gratitude for the things most people take for granted your life will begin to expand in miraculous ways.
"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." - Oprah Winfrey
I am grateful for all these inspiring quotes, the people who created them, the people who shared them. The power of words in one sentence can make a huge difference in somebodies day, and maybe even in their life.
"When eating bamboo sprouts, remember the man who planted them." - Chinese Proverb
Be grateful for the gratitude others have for you because you have been put on this Earth. You are a gift, I am grateful that you are here, reading this. Thank you.
Focus your attention and appreciation on those who have supported you, helped you and inspired you. You will attract more appreciation and support into your life.
One of my favourite ways of practising the power of gratitude is to remind myself of the simple things, like the miracle of my eyes, ears, mouth, nose and body. Then I expand my awareness to the people in my life. This might seem strange at first, but if you make this a ritual, or a habit, you will begin to feel good about yourself. You will attract more things to be grateful for in your life.
"He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has." - Epictetus
I often find loving quotes to be such a powerful antidote to the stress and the heartache of life.
"Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for it to kill your enemy." - Nelson Mandela.
If you change your thoughts, you will change your emotions. Change your emotions and you will change your behaviour. Change your behaviour and you will change your destiny.
“When You Hold Resentment Toward Another, You Are Bound To That Person Or Condition By An Emotional Link That Is Stronger Than Steel. Forgiveness Is The Only Way To Dissolve That Link And Get Free.” - Catherine Ponder
I never said getting over a relationship was easy, but I promise you that it is possible with the transforming power of the right words.
Do you live in the present and focus on making the future even better? Or are you stuck in the past using disempowering words like "Why does this always happen to me?" or "If only I would have done that..."
It's what you do and say that makes the difference. The choices you make. The things you pay attention to. Your language.
“Regret for the things we do can be tempered by time. It is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable” - Sydney J Harris
We will all make mistakes. That much is for sure. Do you create an environment in which it is completely OK for them to err, in love, or do you drop on every minor faux pas like a ton of bricks?
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." - Mohandas Gandhi
The quality of your relationships can be measured by the strength of your compassion, the depth of your gratitude and your ability to remain true to your own values. How you speak is one thing. How you react is another entirely.
"The best insight to a person's character is how he treats people who can't do him any good." ~ Abigail Van Buren
One thing that keeps people in the wrong relationships is fear to let go and move on. You end up in arguments about the same thing over and over.
Could you imaging having a meeting with your boss and they kept referring to the one time you screwed up, and because of that you couldn't move forward in your career? It doesn't work in your relationship either.
"Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast." - Marlene Dietrich
Apply the principles I have shared with you about the power of words, and I promise you, it will transform your current situation. Moreover, learn to let go, and forgive those who appear to trespass against you. They are merely presenting opportunities for you to grow.
"Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself." - Suzanne Somers
"Thousands of candles can be lit from a single one, and its life will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." – Buddha
"One thing have I asked of the Lord, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to inquire in his temple." - Psalm 27:4 English Standard Version (ESV)
Share the love with passion. Both male and female benefit from the physical and emotional benefits of a healthy, passionate sex life. Now if that is not something to be happy about...
"Love is not sexual passion. Those who mistake sex for love remain empty of love. Sex is only a passing manifestation of love. It is part of nature’s mechanism, a method of procreation. Love exists on a higher plane, and as love grows, sex dissipates. The energy that has been manifested in sex is transformed into love."- Osho
It would be remiss of me not to include the beautiful words of the poet Jalal al-Din Rumi, 1207 - 1273.
"Your acts of kindness are iridescent wings of divine love, which linger and continue to uplift others long after your sharing" - Rumi
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