How Life Coaching Can dissolve relationship stress With the power of gratitude

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The power of gratitude can transform thoughts, beliefs, emotions and even the physical body with minimal effort a day. 

Life coaching can help you transform relationship stress into success and there are several tools the life coach will call upon to create the right environment for transformation. Alongside the power of forgiveness, gratitude is one of the most simple yet effective life coaching tools available. You can apply its power in your life, today. 


In this free life coaching article, you will learn transformational practices that could make a difference for you. Cultivating gratitude is a practice I highly recommend. In fact, treat it like a prescription an take twice daily. First thing in the morning and last thing at night. Your worries and stress will dissolve. 

Ready to go? Read on now, you can thank me later.

What Is The Power Of Gratitude?

Having an attitude of gratitude is more than simply acknowledging yourself and others for contributing to life's rich tapestry. 

It's easy to say "thank you" but far more uplifting to express and immerse yourself fully in the emotional power of gratitude. 

You say "thanks" to the person who bought you a gift, or gave you a lift to the airport, but you give thanks on a higher plane. 

Being grateful activates the healing power of gratitude.

Fear, loss, sadness, loneliness, anxiety, are all energies sapping the life force away from you. The emotional state of gratitude helps you pull the energy back to be transformed inside you. Energies that are focused outside you can be recovered and restored within you. 

Having an attitude of gratitude means you purposefully notice the finer things in life. You witness the nature all around you as beauty. It also means you embrace life's challenges but witness them as lessons to develop your emotional intelligence. 

Experience The Power Of Gratitude

Let me give you an example. I was brought to my knees with anger and frustration at a specific challenge in my life. I always thought I was a resilient person. 

I thought I could handle pretty much anything. I allowed things to build up. At first I became angry. Then my anger turned to frustration because at that point I was feeling totally run down. Emotionally drained. Then frustration transformed into fear.  

Working one to one with my life coach, I began to uncover hidden shackles that had been holding me back. I uncovered old feelings of anger shame, and guilt that were being triggered. No wonder my nerves were raw.

My coach helped me reframe the challenging emotions to develop compassion. It was like a light being switched on. (Find out how you can cultivate the power of loving kindness in meditation)

Everything changed, and that was when I was overcome with a deep sense of gratitude. I was able to smile again at the situation, even laugh at myself for not recognising the lesson. 

That is the healing power of gratitude that enabled me to transform a period of great adversity into a catalyst for my own personal growth.

You can experience the power of gratitude too. 

Why Is Gratitude So Powerful?

Research reveals that experiencing the state of gratitude paves the way to multiple benefits, including: 

Gratitude improves sleep quality.

Gratitude improves self-esteem.

Gratitude improves relationships.

Gratitude improves physical health.

Gratitude improves psychological health.

Gratitude enhances empathy and reduces aggression.

I am not claiming that the power of gratitude is a new discovery. The importance of expressing gratitude has been written or spoken about since time began. 

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. - Thessalonians 5:16-18.

You can see references to giving thanks throughout the Bible and most other religious texts. This is a fundamental truth dating back to the beginning of time. 

The only difference now is that scientists are able to trace the origins and paths of gratitude within the human brain! 

I am claiming that you will enhance your daily rituals with the added power of gratitude based practice. Give thanks in all circumstances. Notice the beauty, or, find the true meaning of life's lessons and become grateful. 

How To Invoke The Power Of Gratitude

If you can cultivate an attitude of gratitude in your life and spend some time immersing yourself in the mindfulness of gratitude you will change your life. Period. Making gratitude a practice is the way out of fear. How can you be fearful if you are filled with gratitude? 

How can you worry about tomorrow when you are filled with gratitude for today? 

Be your own life coach! Here are some powerful life coaching questions to get you started:

What am I most grateful about in my life right now?

What is it about that makes me feel grateful?

How does that make me feel?

Allow each question to elicit all of the gratitude you can attribute to the experience. Notice the sensations in your body as you become deeply grateful. Notice where gratitude starts and moves within you. Notice how it shifts your mind and opens doors to new possibilities.

There are many ways to invoke the power of gratitude. Try these suggestions:

a) Start a gratitude journal today.

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Even if you made a note of two things each day which you were grateful of, by the end of a week you would have fourteen. At the end of a month sixty things to reflect upon with gratitude. Just this one ritual will enhance your life. As you train your mind to think about that which you are grateful for you will manifest more. Then you will experience the power of gratitude for yourself. 

Many great note taking apps allow you create individual notebooks for specific purpose. Why not create a folder for your gratitude journal. IA Writer is a great writing app. I use IA writer on my computer and iPad. I love the blank canvas and simplicity of use. In fact I used IA Writer in the creation of every page on this website.

You prefer the experience of a leather bound, or even a hard back journal. Grab your favourite pen and start writing. Of course, your journal doesn't have to be luxurious because the power of gratitude will always be inside you. 

Whatever method you prefer, I want you to feel inspired to pick up your journal and write in it. An attitude of gratitude will become a solid habit that serves you for the rest of your life. 

b) Mindfulness Practice - The Power Of Gratitude

A simple yet rewarding practice is expressing gratitude for your body. In your practice express gratitude for these hands, and the ability to touch. These eyes, and the ability to see, these ears, and the ability to hear. 

You could incorporate specific events such as a delicious meal and express gratitude for this mouth, that was able to taste the food

this nose that was able to smell the food. Perhaps it was a fresh herb that stood out, or the light charring on the grilled meat.

Become grateful for all the sensations you are able to experience. 

Expand your mind to express gratitude for the functions of your internal organs, your heart, your liver, your lungs. Actually, when you bring your attention to organs such as the liver you might stop treating them so badly with charred foods in the first place! Thats the power of gratitude.

You can also turn your attention to gratitude for your external environment. Become grateful for being in this space in this place, with these things around you. Notice what becomes important to you during your practice and how you might make subtle yet impactful improvements to your space.

Then expand your mind to express gratitude for your consciousness. Express gratitude for having the experience of life in moments passed, and in the present moment in this time, in this dimension. 

When you really think about it, there is so much you could be grateful for. There is so much to acknowledge and tune in to. Turn your focus to gratitude and watch your fear and anxiety melt away. 

c) Being grateful in the NET

What on earth does that mean? 

Simply whenever you are practicing any behaviour that requires very little conscious thought you can direct your mind to think about things you are grateful for. It takes No Extra Time (N.E.T.) because you are already invested in the moment. You just use the same time to unleash the power of gratitude to infiltrate and influence your mind. 

You could use the time spent showering, brushing your teeth, or even doing the ironing or even mowing the lawn as examples. Use these or other N.E.T. activities to think about and focus upon just three things to be grateful for. Remember to add to your gratitude journal.

I heard an inspiring story of a guy who journaled for a year. Every day he wrote one to three things he was grateful for about his wife. By the end of the year he had journaled everything that he was grateful for.  He then wrapped his journal in a beautiful presentation box as a gift for her on their anniversary. You could imagine the impact of such a gift.

d) express gratitude to others

As you go through your day make a conscious effort to express thanks for the other people who come in to your life. Not only will it increase the power of gratitude for you, but it will make others feel good too! It's win-win!

In fact, one practice that has blown me away several times is the Pay it Forward game. Help a complete stranger. Don't expect anything in return but gratitude. When they say "how can I ever repay you?" you simply respond "just pay it forward, whenever you are able"

I have done this so many times and it creates a sense of contribution and compassion. Even the smallest gestures can mean the world to others less fortunate than ourselves.  Random things like paying for a coffee in the coffee shop because someone had forgotten their purse. Paying for shopping in the supermarket when the bill was more than they could afford. I once saw someone having to choose between a microwave meal and a tin of dog food. I asked the checkout to add my shopping and I took care of the bill.  The person looked at me in amazement and relief.  I just said "you both need to eat."  The person was almost in tears. The checkout assistant was too!  

It made me feel good about myself and unbelievably grateful that I was able to afford to help in that moment. One day I might need a little help and I pray that what goes around comes back around. 

Try this  yourself when you feel able.

Thank somebody for something they did or said, even if it isn't exactly as you would have it. Do a small thing for somebody who could use a little help. It doesn't have to be a huge thing. Just a helping hand would do. Then tell them to pay it forward when they can.

What if there is nothing to be grateful for?

Developing the power of gratitude through practice or habit is worth every ounce of effort. I encourage life coaching clients to build some form of practice into their daily routine, at least for the duration of the coaching period. See The Power of Life Coaching for other suggested practices.

Most carry these habits on, but occasionally I am asked "What if there is nothing to be grateful for?"

The truth is there is always something to be grateful for if you truly look for it. Seek and ye shall find. As a man thinketh so is he. 

If nothing comes to mind that you do feel grateful for ask yourself what could you be grateful for. Let those thoughts ruminate. 

When you start out your gratitude practice keep it simple.  You can challenge yourself later, but for the first few days just bring to mind three things you are grateful for. 

If you are really struggling, try visiting a nursing home or volunteering at a homeless food bank. There is always something to be grateful for.

Every day in every way is precious. Never forget that. Never forget to be grateful. 

What Are You Grateful For Today?

If you were near the end of your life, waking up each day could be the first thing we would be grateful for. Why wait?

Have you experienced the power of gratitude you felt that a loved one came round after surgery at the hospital? Perhaps a child, or a partner. Who would you be grateful to? The surgeon, the aneasthatist? The scrub nurse? How about the bricklayers who helped build the hospital? The painters who finished the interior? Haven't they all contributed in some way? 

Have you ever experienced gratitude for the safe return of a child after they wandered temporarily from your view? 

Have you witnessed the deep joy and relief of the return of a soldier from the front line? 

Maybe you could be grateful for hearing someone's voice over the telephone, or grateful that something didn't happen that you thought might.

Maybe you are grateful that you have a job, a house, a family, or your health or an income.

I am grateful that you spent your precious time with me by reading this page. I hope you found something of value in the power of gratitude, and that you pay it forward whenever you can, perhaps by sharing The Relationship Breakthrough Coach with your network.  

To Your Success


The Relationship Breakthrough Coach

Where Will Your Next Steps Take You?

Relationship Breakthrough Coach provides life coaching in Mossley, Tameside, Uppermill, Saddleworth, and all surrounding areas. Sessions are available for men, women and couples who are ready to transform their health wealth and relationships.

Life coaching is a journey of self discovery. Your journey starts with the next step. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the next step.

The power of life coaching will unlock your personal power to overcome obstacles that show up while you get to work on your dreams.

I sincerely hope you find what you were looking for. 

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