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Do you yearn to relight the loving passion you once enjoyed in your relationship?
Your desire for loving energies can stand the test of time if you choose to nurture it.
Discover how you can transform a stale relationship, failing marriage into a passionate loving intimate relationship second to none.
We love passion, excitement and adventure, don't you?
What happens after months of passionate, meticulous marriage preparations, so that years later we find ourselves in a passionless failing marriage?
Where the only excitement and adventure is juggling credit card and loan repayments, wondering if your card will be rejected the next time you go to the supermarket.
The quality of your loving relationship will affect the quality of your life.
People get into relationships for all kinds of reasons and then forget the core essence of who they really are. All we really are, at our core, is energy. That energy, at its core, is loving passion.
Sharing moments of excitement and adventure with that special someone can transform any experience to something really breathtaking. A sunset walk over the white chalk cliffs, a stroll around a lake, a summer picnic becomes magical, simply because you shared it with the one you love.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
Isn't that what real loving passion is all about? Who wouldn't long for a passionate relationship where me plus you equals infinity?
We can so easily become distracted by the temptations and fears of our ego. Never really making love our top priority.
Have you experienced this at some time in your life?
You may have already realised that relationships bring out the best, and the worst in you. Have you ever wondered why a particular person came into your life at a particular time?
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. There is a saying that when the student is ready, the teacher appears.
Your partner can be either the student or the teacher, and the roles will change during the relationship. There will be times when you hurt, times when you heal, and times when you feel like you have been knocked to the ground for the last time.
These are opportunities for relationship growth and why you should be grateful for the struggle your partner appears to have presented you. Read about the Butterflys Breakthrough to understand this concept.
Your physical body is key to your success. We don't mean vanity, or narcissism.
Nothing tastes better than fit feels and when you are fit healthy and vibrant with energy, it will pay dividends in your relationship. Loving passion flows through you not to you.
Be honest. Are you a slight touch overweight or do you need to lose a truck load?
Do you want to lose a few pounds, or do you want to feel like you are sixteen again, but with better judgement?
If you don't look after your own health, how are you take care of your partner or your children. Take care of yourself, so that you can take better care of those you love, and better care of your relationship. Like they say in the aircraft safety announcement, "Put your own Oxygen mask on first"
You only have one body, so look after it. Three hours of loving passion is better than three minutes! Click the "like button" top left if you agree!
Your words are like a route map to your soul.
The way you speak, the way you use tonality focus and emotion are dead giveaways to how you are you are feeling in the moment. Words have a vibration and an energy associated with them.
Have you ever sufferd a lecture or a workshop where the trainer was boring you rigid, even though you were keen on the subject?
Words are also powerful ways to consciously shift your emotions, and the emotions of those nearest to you. Words are really just labels we give to our sensory experience in order to communicate and understand. We have literally thousands of words at our disposal, yet we regularly use but a handful. Loving passion are just words, that we chose to elicit a sense, a feeling, an image, but what those words mean for you will make the difference.
How can you have a passionate relationship if you don't relate to each other passionately? Do you even know the seductive power your wordplay has on your partner, even before your touch them? Does it all sound "too gushy" to you? Thats just another word label too, isn't it?
Find some inspiration with our loving quotes. Use loving words with passion, seduce your partner, excite your audience! Go have some fun with sexy, passionate, cheeky, inspiring, thoughtful, compassionate, meaningful or whatever turns you on words.
Be impeccable with your thoughts. Its one of the "Four Agreements" (Don Miguel Ruiz). Simple and profound.
If positive words create a positive energy vibration around you with those you engage with, your thoughts penetrate to a much deeper level than you might think. Imagine the impact of the thoughts of people around you are having on you. Would you like to influence the way they think about you?
I love you. I love you so much. I love you so much because you melt my heart every time I look at you. You are just a reflection of me. I love you because I see myself in you. I cant believe you came into my life, and I am so grateful. How did I get so lucky to have you in my life?
It's a little like saying Grace before dinner.
Guiding your thoughts to positive outcomes requires effort at first, but make this your new habit, and it affects your behaviour and in turn creates a character which ultimately shapes your identity. And isn't that your desire?
Have you ever had that experience in a relationship when your sexual energy goes through the roof? (without artificially induced chemical enhancement!)
Remember the early days of a passionate loving relationship? Endless night's of intimacy and ecstasy when you just cant keep your hands off each other. When you hadn’t seen your partner for maybe a week, or maybe even a day, and you just want them so much?
Its like you end up in a tight embrace as you walk through the door, even before your bag, or your case hit the floor.
You get the picture?
What happened to the passion? How do we end up getting so distracted?
You shifted your focus. In the beginning you were focused on your partner. You put them first, always. Short term goals took over, but you forgot to think about yourself, your own goals, and where the relationship was going.
So what are the three keys to a more passionate marriage, an enduring intimate relationship? I will reveal them to you in just a moment, but first, consider this:
There are only three components you need to focus on:
1. Loving Yourself
2. Loving Your Partner
3. Loving Your Relationship
"I love me, I love you, I love US."
How would you score yourself on a level from 1-10 on each of the above?
We hope to whet your appetite, just a little bit.
We hope that developing a passionate loving relationship leads a marriage of hearts and minds that will last.
Your relationships are amazing, and we sincerely hope important enough for you and for your partner to take the steps and take it to the next level.
Give it a try. For best results, make it a MUST, then make it a habit.
To be outstanding get someone to hold you accountable. You can start with each other perhaps!
Or get a couples coach to support you and hold you both to a higher standard in your love for each other.
If you want a more loving passion in your relationship, more joy in your marriage, you've got to "Live With Love, and Love With Passion!"
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