Introducing Tony Healer, Your Next Life Coach 

NLP Life Coach Saddleworth Oldham OL3. 
Life coaching for Men Women and Couples for wellbeing and relationships in Tameside Oldham Stockport Huddersfield Glossop and surrounding areas

Are you looking for your next life coach? Or is this your first time? Either way you might want to know a little more about me, right? This article is just for you.

I am blessed to help people overcome obstacles and achieve goals they didn't dare to dream. I’ve been coaching men, women and couples for over a decade and loving every minute. I work with company directors, small business owners, police, doctors, holistic therapists, nurses, fire fighters, HR professionals, housewives, counsellors, professional sports people, authors, solicitors and many more. I have also  mentored other life coaches.

My coaching practice is based in Saddleworth in Greater Manchester. Clients are able to arrange face to face appointments at the room in Uppermill (subject to availability). For those further afield, life coaching sessions can take place via online meeting platforms. Whether you are in the next town or from the other side of the country there is no need to travel to meet your coach. I am also happy to work with clients across mainland Europe, and America, Canada, and even Australia as long as time zones permit. 

This is my story of how life got in the way and transformed my world:

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Introducing Your Next Life Coach: Tony Healer

Hi, I am Tony Healer, the UK's Relationship Breakthrough Coach.

I was actually christened "Anthony" and always get comments about being A Healer! I didn't always want to become a life coach. For years as a young adult I didn't even know what life coaching was. I thought a coach was someone who managed a sports team. I had no idea that one day I would call myself The Relationship Breakthrough Coach. 

Before I begin the story of how I became a professional life coach, and NLP Master Practitioner could you pause for a brief moment and just ask yourself:

✔ Have you faced challenges that have held you back in your life?

✔ Have you felt stuck and didn't know which way to turn?

✔ Have you given up on your dreams and goals?

✔ Are you ready to make a fresh start?

✔ Have you considered working with a life coach?

My guess is that you have experienced being hurt in a relationship. As a transformational life coach I am not immune to any of the joys, nor the pains, confusion or frustrations of being in a relationship. 

I too have been blessed to fall in love. I have also been blessed with marriage and divorce. I know it can be difficult to talk about relationship challenges. In fact, overcoming my own relationship breakdown was instrumental in my transformation. That was why I decided to learn about life coaching and NLP strategies for personal transformation.  

I knew it was having consequences in other area's of my life. I was eager to learn the skills to turn a relationship breakdown or break up into a breakthrough!

I learned to tap into my inner strength, my own personal power in order to transform issues that held me back into breakthroughs. I learned how to master my emotions. Then I learned how to share this gift with others.

It would be my honour and pleasure to become your next life coach. 

The Value Of Investing In A Life Coach 

Around the time my career was looking up and taking a new direction I noticed things weren't so great in my relationship. I had studied hard and gained a promotion, but all my time and energy was taken up with work. I had little left to give to my partner or my young children. 

I was taking holidays but taking my mobile phone so the office could get hold of me. My relationship spiralled into breakdown and I was completely stuck. There were times I couldn't see beyond next week, let alone the next six months!  

The road ahead was one I had not travelled. It appeared dark and precarious. There was no clear path.

I considered getting a life coach, or counselling or just about anything that would pull me through this turbulence but I couldn't believe how much life coaching cost. So I procrastinated, full of self doubt. I couldn't justify spending that much money which made me feel even worse about myself. I never stopped to consider the concept or the true value of investing in me.

I thought about attending some life coaching events too. I was a fan of Anthony Robbins and had enquired about the four day program Unleash the Power Within. All the events were in London which meant travel and accommodation at London prices on top of entry fee's. 

All of my naysayer instincts kicked in. All the negative self talk: 

"Don't be ridiculous!"
"Who do you think you are?"
"You've never done this before"
"You should leave this to the professionals"
"Have you any idea what's involved in this?"

And on and on and on. Have you ever done this to yourself? It's just a form of self sabotage under the thin veil of protection. Your unconscious mind doesn't want you to suffer. Wants to keep you safe.

Be Your Own Life Coach

Of course my life coaching journey didn't end there because I didn't give in to my self doubt. My curiosity for personal development had been sparked and wasn't going away. I was looking for clues to help me understand the emotions I was experiencing in my professional and personal relationships.  

Books were recommended to me and I eagerly devoured them. I spent hours and hours at a local library taking in anything about personal development. I would check the bibliography to find the next piece of the puzzle. I saw many of the same titles coming up over and over again so they were added to my life coaching reading list. Little did I know that I was taking small early steps to becoming a life coach! 

Not everything I read hit the mark, but a handful of books stand out. They had an impact for me. Tony Buzan's books such as Use Your Brain and  Mind Mapping, Stephen Covey's "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" or Anthony Robbins' "Unlimited Power" amongst many, many more. 

I bought life coaching audio programs when audio tapes were still a thing. I listened. I learned. I applied. I immersed myself in as much personal development as I could. People close to me thought I had lost it! But I was determined to focus on shifting my mindset. 

Taking The First Step With A Life Coach

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step" ~ Martin Luther King Jnr

The more I delved into the world of personal development the more I wanted to become a life coach! 

My divorce was finalised and for the first time I realised that I no longer had to do what others wanted me to do. I could do, be and have anything I desired. One of the most transformational moments of my life was when I stopped doubting and started embracing who I really was and who I wanted to become. I started to say "Yes!" a whole lot more.

For a while I wasn't really making many changes on the outside. My world still looked pretty much the same. Work, gym, social, crash, repeat. But changes were taking root on the inside. 

I became frustrated with my experience. The rate of change in the career I once loved was accelerating. New procedures. New people. More corners being cut. More work. More stress. Less fulfilment. It's a pattern repeated across the world.

Deep down inside I knew there had to be something more to life. Then it finally hit me. "I need a life coach!" I already believed that life coaching had real potential but the awakening was when I considered the cost of not making that investment. This was the leap of faith moment as I stepped out into the unknown.

I scheduled my first session with a life coach. I was hooked.

Eliminating Self Doubt 

The wiring in my brain was pretty much burnt out and as soon as we started reconnecting the circuits I became hungry for more. The next step was to enrol in life coach training courses. I reviewed the top life coaching schools available in the UK such as The Coaching Academy. Coach-U, Results Coaching Systems, the ILM, and a few others. 

Each offered the potential growth I was looking for. I am not saying any were better than the other and if becoming a life coach is your path, you should make your decision based upon your own research and judgement.   

I spoke several times with Chris Samsa and Richard Bentley from Results Coaching Systems before I chose to go with them. I am hugely grateful to both Richard and Chris for their coaching skills, and for the training I later completed with them. I am also grateful to the universe for creating a situation that gave me the best nudge I could have wished for. 

Even when I still doubted myself, I couldn't let go of the dream of becoming a coach. Then Richard called me. There had been a cancellation on a course starting in a couple of weeks in London. This was my one time only opportunity and we made a deal. 

Firewalk Life Coach Relationship Breakthrough Coach

Anthony (Tony) Robbins says that your life changes in the moment of making a decision. Everything else is merely preparation. If you are not prepared when the moment of opportunity arises, you will miss it. I absolutely believe the psychology behind this statement. My life did change in the moment of decision. It always has, and always will. 

In the week after saying "yes" to the life coaching training in London I got the call from the UPW (Unleash The Power Within) sales team. I already knew I was going. I had put this off for so long. I stopped the sales person in his tracks and told him he just needed to take my card details and send my tickets. Even though he didn't need to "sell" me the tickets we spoke for over forty minutes. He had attended the event multiple times which was why he was so passionate about enrolling people. 

These two moments in my journey to become a life coach stand out to me like beacons of potential  and expanding possibility. For those who believe in spiritual vibrational energy, I was buzzing. I literally walked on fire! It was a truly transformational experience. 

Walking barefoot across burning hot coals was a powerful metaphor for change. Not because it was a miracle, but because it was always possible if you put your mind to it. (Please don't try this at home!)

It was only my own mind telling me I wouldn't make it. Imagine clearing your mind of all doubt and being open to new possibilities. I was no longer scared to take that first step, I was eager.

This was my major breakthrough. Limiting thought patterns and beliefs melted and the road ahead shifted to meet me. 

Training To Become A Professional Life Coach 

The moment I invested in myself, in my own personal development, doors began to open. As a life coach I encourage you to take the steps, because when you take full responsibility for your current state you will rise!  Just like the phoenix rising from the ashes! 

My life coach specific training with "Results Coaching Systems" (RCS) was outstanding. I don't know if you have already heard of the International Coaching Federation (ICF), but all the courses I completed with RCS are ICF approved.

Professional Life Coach Training With Results Coaching Systems (RCS)

"Too many people lose too many hours dreaming about work when they could be working on their dreams" - Tony Healer, Your Life Coach!

Course Title: Intensive Coach Training

36 hours of ICF accredited life coaching specific training

Date completed: May 2008 

Course: Intuitive Coaching

12 hours of ICF accredited  life coaching specific training

Date completed: Apr 2008

Course: Coaches Toolkit

12 hours of ICF accredited life coaching specific training

Date completed: Mar 2010

Course: Build Your Practice

12 hours of ICF accredited life coaching specific training

Date completed: May 2011

NLP Life Coach Training Record

NLP is the acronym for Neuro Linguistic Programming

Christopher Howard - Think Big Training UK

NLP Practitioner (Results Coach)

60 hours of Neuro Linguistic Programming specific training

Date completed: Sep 2008

NLP Master Practitioner (Master Results Coach)

60 hours of Neuro Linguistic Programming specific training

Date Completed: May 2009

Becoming The Relationship Breakthrough Coach 

Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would become a life coach working with incredible clients and achieving awe inspiring goals. 

Never in my wildest dreams did I envision sharing my story with you as the CEO and founder of the Relationship Breakthrough Coach. I never ran a business before, or published a website for that matter. Once I started along the road less travelled I realised that anything was possible. 

Before the Relationship Breakthrough Coach came to be I pumped thousands of pounds into courses, events and other materials. 

I pumped thousands into a web developer and graphic designers to absolutely no avail. The websites just did not work. I was devastated, broke and utterly demoralised. 

Then I discovered SBI, or Site Build It! All the tools to build an online business from scratch under one roof. Thus, the Relationship Breakthrough Coach was born.

You dont need to pay through the nose to build an online business. You could be turning your passions into profits before you know it. Curious? Check out this link.

Solo Build It!

My business is turning relationship breakups and break downs into breakthroughs.

My mission is to deliver professional and transformational life coaching that exceeds your expectations. 

It would be my honour to be your next life coach. Take a free coaching consultation now to get started on your own journey.

You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.

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Life coaching is a journey of self discovery. Your journey starts with your next step. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the next step. The power of life coaching will unlock your personal power to overcome obstacles that show up while you get to work on your dreams.

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