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Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be writing content for a web page about how I became the Relationship Breakthrough Coach.

I am delighted to meet you and share my story with you, but, before I begin, ask yourself

Have you ever faced major challenges that have held you back in your life? 

Have you ever felt so much resistance moving forward you just felt stuck?

Have you ever felt like you had to give up on your dreams and goals? 

Have you ever experienced working with a life coach?

I can say "YES" to all of the above.

Where my story of becoming the Relationship Breakthrough Life Coach will take you:

  • Meet Anthony (AKA Tony) Healer, The Relationship Breakthrough Coach
  • My personal breakthrough's
  • Never in my wildest dreams
  • Before the Relationship Breakthrough Coach rose from the ashes
  • Then I met a life coach
  • Life Coach Training
  • NLP Coaching specific training
  • Beyond The Relationship Breakthrough Coach
  • Get a life coach and dream big

Meet Your life Coach, Tony

Anthony Healer - The Relationship Breakthrough Coach

Hi, I am Tony Healer, your relationship breakthrough life coach. I want to share with you right from the start that I have been in that place of hurting, confusion, anger and frustration.

I know sometimes it can be really difficult to talk about your relationship challenges because it feels like you are somehow less of a man, or less of a person because you didn't succeed.

Especially on those rare and beautiful occasions where something magical came along, but the fairy dust lost its power.

Yes, I have been wounded, more times than I care to remember. I made it my path to  learn the most powerful strategies for personal transformation to turn my feelings around and tap into my inner strength, my unique personal power in order to turn these events into breakthroughs. I became my own version of Chiron, "The Wounded Healer."

My personal breakthrough's

I literally walked on fire!

A truly incredible experience at a one of many life coaching events I attended in London.

Sometimes the road ahead looked long and precarious. The path ahead looked like it was going to consume me. But it didn't. 

Stepping out onto the burning hot coals was a magical metaphor for change. Not because it was a miracle, but because it was always possible. It was only my mind telling me I wouldn't make it. 

As your life coach I encourage you to take steps in the directions that you may be fear to tread, because I know that if you, like me, are willing to take full responsibility for your current situation in life you will rise!  Just like the phoenix rising from the ashes! 

With proven life coaching strategies and methods of personal transformation from NLP, hypnosis and performance coaching you can be do or have anything that your heart desires.

What would be the one thing you would change about your situation if you could, that would transform your results and propel you on to achieve more, become more, and have more of the first class experiences you desire?

Never in my wildest dreams

Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that one day I would be sat at my desk writing a website to promote my relationship breakthrough life coaching business. 

I didn't have the support of my closest loved ones. It was a ridiculous idea. Who on Earth did I think I was? I had never ran my own business before, or published a website for that matter and I had really only coached a handful of people. I didn't have the confidence, the experience or even the means to make my dream a reality. I was filled with self doubt and was far too attentive to the naysayer in me.

Have you ever done that to yourself?

What I found was when I first started to invest in myself, in my own personal development, doors began to open. I stayed curious for what seemed like an age before I decided that "I" was worth the time and the money. It was a powerfully liberating moment that changed my life forever.

Becoming a Life coach

I want to share a little about the journey so far, and what truly inspired me to create The Relationship Breakthrough Coach. 

In the early days I guess it was about having the curiosity sparked to develop myself. I had gone from being a worker to a manager and coming to terms with all the new levels of responsibility that came with it. A handful of books were recommended to me in various training courses and I eagerly devoured them, looking for clues to help me understand the emotions I was experiencing. 

Little did I know that these were just small steps to becoming a life coach! But I couldn't say it was just one book either. There were many. 

I spent hours at the library devouring the self help and personal development books. Hungry for more I always looked at the bibliography to find the next piece of the puzzle.

A handful stand out that had an impact for me such as Tony Buzan's early books on Mind Mapping, Stephen Covey's "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" or Anthony Robbins' "Unlimited Power" amongst many, many more. 

I got hold of some life coaching audio programs way back when audio tapes were still a thing. I listened. I learned. I applied. I immersed myself in as much positivity people thought I had truly lost it! Seriously, the world around me could be going wild and I would just stay in my zone, thinking "look at the pretty flowers George" 

Then it hit me! "I need a life coach!"

I wasn't really making many changes on the outside. My world still looked pretty much the same. Work, home, crash, repeat. 

But the changes were taking root on the inside. I was becoming even more frustrated with the reality I was experiencing. Then I found out about coaching and my curiosity piqued. I started thinking "Do I need a life coach?"

Of course this concept had been screaming from many of the books and audio programs I had picked up. What I mean is that I discovered that my own organisation, my employers, had a coaching training course of their own. Then I started thinking "Can I afford a life coach?"

Now, my employer didn't splash cash around for fun. Neither did I. It clicked for me that life coaching was something that had real potential. My mind clicked, and I plucked up the courage to contact a life coach. I was hooked.

But where would I even find a life coach near me?

My life coach Certification and training accredited by the International Coaching Federation (ICF)

I jumped right in. 

First of all came a call to a coaching training company at the time known as "Results Coaching Systems" (RCS). A deal was done and I signed up in a heartbeat. 

I hadn't even heard of the International Coaching Federation (ICF) at the time, but all the trainings I completed with RCS were ICF approved. 

I completed a number of training courses with RCS:

Course Title: Intensive Coach Training

36 hours of coaching specific training

Date completed: May 2008 

Course Title: Intuitive Coaching

12 hours of coaching specific training

Date completed: Apr 2008

Course Title: Coaches Toolkit

12 hours of coaching specific training

Date completed: Mar 2010

Course Title: Build Your Practice

12 hours of coaching specific training

Date completed: May 2011

NLP master life coach training (Neuro Linguistic programming)

Christopher Howard Training

NLP Practitioner (Results Coach)

60 hours of Neuro Linguistic Programming specific training

Date completed: Sep 2008

NLP Master Practitioner (Master Results Coach)

60 hours of Neuro Linguistic Programming specific training

Date Completed: May 2009

Beyond The Relationship Breakthrough Coach 

Above and beyond all the life coach training courses there have been numerous personal development events and seminars, webinars, meetings, books and audio programs that have all contributed hours and hours to my development as a life coach.

In 2016 I launched a life coaching business within a local health and wellbeing centre.

They provided the clients and I literally just showed up to provide coaching. It was great, but I wasn't completely fulfilled. There was a philosophy of sales and selling more and more sessions. There was a pressure to keep the clients coming back over and over again. 

I don't want to be a sales person and I have no interest in anything a client doesn't want anyway. My goal is to deliver professional life coaching that achieves the results a client wants in a specific time frame. What that means for you is that when you work with me, we isolate the problem and we deal with it. Then we move on. If you want to continue working together, I'm totally thrilled about that, but there will be no pressure from me.

You know what I mean?

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Get a personal life coach and dream big

"Too many people lose too many hours dreaming about work when they could be working on their dreams" - Tony Healer The Relationship Breakthrough Coach

Now it has come to the time where I need to step out of working for someone else and being bound by the terms and conditions of their business. I am proud to be relaunching the Relationship Breakthrough Coach in 2021. 

Thank you so much for reading my mini bio. I am thrilled that you came this far. 

I am genuinely excited to welcome you aboard and hope to meet with you soon, as your life coach. Even it is via the internet. 

To your relationship success!


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