The Power To Face Your Fears

NLP Coaching specialist in Saddleworth Oldham OL3. Life coaching for Men Women and Couples for wellbeing and relationships in Tameside Oldham Stockport Huddersfield Glossop and surrounding areas

The Ultimate Life Coaching Guide To Overcoming Fear and Phobia's

Having to face your fears is one of the greatest opportunities to grow. 

Feel the fear and do it anyway were the words of Susan Jeffers in her brilliant life coaching book of the same name first published way back in 1986. 

At the same time facing your biggest fears in life can also be the most challenging. Wherever there is great adversity there is always great achievement.

Some of fears are worse than others and some are completely irrational fears. What I am going to show you in this page is how even the toughest fears and phobia's can be overcome. 

This is your ultimate life coaching guide for how to transform your fears and phobia's into personal breakthrough's. Once you learn how to do this you will achieve relationship and life goals you never dared to dream were even possible.

If you could transformed your fear into power, what could you see yourself achieving differently?

Where would you go? What would you do? Who would you become?

You already know that if you want to succeed where others fail, at some point, you are going to have to face your fears.

What Are Your Biggest Fears In Life? 

According to Richard Bandler, one of the creators of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) there are only two fears that we are born into the world with. Fear of loud noises and fear of falling. The rest are merely learned behaviours. And we have learned the fear of everything!

Have fear and phobias ever stopped you in your tracks? 

Have you been stricken with panic at the worst possible moment? 

Have you stopped yourself from achieving your biggest goals and dreams?

Do you long for the confidence to just go for it anyway?

Fear can show up in many disguises from mild fears to wild fears such as anxiety, panic attacks and even irrational fears that become phobia's. For example, not being unable to step into an elevator might be irrational given the safety measures that are now implemented in construction and maintenance of elevators. The actual threat may not be real, or so minuscule, but never the less the fear is real and often extreme.

Whether you suffer with mild fears or wild phobia's, they have one thing in common. They can literally stop you loving and living up to your highest potential. Here are some examples of the biggest fears in life that life coaching has helped my clients overcome:

Fear of commitment in a relationship

Fear of intimacy in a relationship

Fear of an abusive relationship

Fear of relationships

Fear of breaking up

Fear of moving in

Fear of moving out

Fear of starting a new career

Fear of interviews

Fear of resigning

Fear of letting go 

Fear of holding on

Fear of heights

Fear of flying

What Is Not Being Able To Face Your Fear Costing You?

Do any of these fears sound familiar? Maybe you have your own biggest fears in life that you would like to overcome. Think about how much that has cost you up to now. Time marches on and the longer it takes to get into action the stronger the impact. Imagine being stuck in a role  or career you dislike but are unable to face your fear of being interviewed. 

If you overcame your deepest fears today, you would be able to find a new job. The impact of that one shift could be life changing! The ripple effect doesn't only affect you either.

The longer you stay stuck, the deeper the impact. You need to learn how to get over your fear. Learn how to face your fear and get over it. 

Your first step is to decide that you want to let go of the fear. Realise the power of letting go and how taking this one step could transform not only your fear, but the rest of your life.

No fear is too small or too big to get over. From spiders to aeroplanes. From highs to lows, I am always excited to recommend a personal breakthrough life coaching program that will inspire you to face your fears and expand your possibilities. Click for more about life coaching services by The Relationship Breakthrough Coach.

You can overcome fears and phobia's with NLP and life coaching. Did you ever hear of the "fast phobia cure?" 

You can eliminate anxiety, maximise confidence, eliminate panic, enhance your self esteem. You can achieve things you never before thought possible.

You Already Know How To Face Your Fears

Where does fear come from and what is its purpose?

When mankind started walking around on two legs we didn't understand things like biology, physiology, chemistry or psychology. We understood pleasure and pain but not much more. As we began exploring our environment we discovered the basic things we needed to eat to survive. Food, shelter, clothing. Albeit primitive, that was our learning and evolution in progress. 

We also learned that the world was not always so welcoming and there were many elements that created a physiological response that we now call fear. You may have heard these referred to as fight or flight responses. Depending on the level of the threat, the response would indicate that we had to take some focused action in order to survive.

As we became familiar with those threatening experiences, such as coming face to face with a tiger, the fear response became conditioned. Next time you saw a tiger, you automatically recognised danger and faced the fear. 

You have already learned how to face your fears and also how to overcome them. It's written in your blueprint. 

The Evolution of fear

Old World 


Fight Or Flight 

Survival Instinct

Eat or Starve

Live another day

Learn and grow

New world

No tiger

Fight Or Flight 

Irrational fear




What If You Just Face Your Fears?

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step." Martin Luther King Jnr

Where could you be in six months if you conquered fear that is holding you back today?

Some say that on the other side of fear lies your wildest dreams. It doesn't matter how big or small, or even how bizarre. Haven't fears or phobias held you back long enough? 

The question is, do you have the courage to learn how to get over fear?

Courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is moving forwards despite fear. Courage is also a measure of desire. The strength of your desire to achieve your goals will give you the power to get started and the will to keep moving forwards. Your courage will reveal itself to you when the going gets tough. If you have an appetite to move forward your courage will be in equal measure. Which basically means if you look for it, you will find a way. 

Whenever you face your fears and overcome them, you are rewarded with the breakthrough you need to succeed.

How To Get Over Fear With NLP

NLP, or neuro linguistic programming has been around for over forty years. Some devotees refer to NLP as the "owners manual for the mind." 

If you get a flashing light on your cars dash, you go to the mechanic. If your thoughts and emotions are affecting your results you should consider life coaching. Neuro means function of the brain. Linguistic means how we represent our experience in language. Programming refers to how we learn, code and store information about our experiences in the unconscious mind. 

Your life coach will listen first to more fully understand how you code and store thoughts, behaviour, and emotion. Once you both have the blueprint, it's easy to retune your mind to transform your fears into power. 

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Face Your Fears And Take The Road Less Travelled

One of the powerful yet unexpected transformational tools in the NLP practitioners belt is confusion. Confusion plays an important role in disconnecting the neurological wiring and thought patterns. Metaphorically speaking.

Thoughts are impulses in the brain that follow established networks that create emotional responses including fear. When you create a sense of confusion about a specific experience, it can become difficult to trigger the emotional response that is usually related to it. Facing your fears is like the road less travelled so likely to fire a whole different emotional response.

The client becomes confused that the old conditioned response isn't working. This is the perfect opportunity to lead the mind to a completely new emotional response, which is far more desirable than the old one. Imagine replacing fear with a sense of excited curiosity.

That may sound a little dramatic, but when a client who has a fear of flying says that become physically sick because they have a family holiday and the flight is a couple of weeks away, which is more dramatic? Taking the client on a journey to obliterate the old neural network and install a new one can be magical for the client. (Read my five star Life Coaching Reviews)

Sometimes interrupting the old pattern is all it takes. Finding the correct neural program to unravel is often more challenging which is why this works best in a one to one with a life coach. 

Transforming emotions from fear into power can be achieved by anyone.

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Be Your Own Life Coach And Face Your Fears

A breakthrough life coaching experience will help you retune your thoughts, emotions and behaviour so that you can no longer face your fears with the same mindset. These powerful and in depth coaching sessions blend the most effective tools from cognitive interview technique, Neuro Linguistic Programming, hypnosis and life coaching. 

It causes the fear to simply disappear so that it no longer holds you back. This is like hitting the boundaries of your thinking and taking those steps out into the unknown. 

When you realise that the boundaries were all in your mind you will make success your friend, and not the enemy. A boundary condition once expanded will never return to its original limitations. Imagine the compound impact you could make by facing your fears today.

Be Your Own Life Coach And Face Your Fears

Try this simple life coaching exercise to invoke your excited curiosity. Remember this is all imagination and creativity about seeing things work out the way you want them to. 

Think of a time when you faced a challenge and fear stopped you moving forward. A time when you didn't believe in yourself and you backed down. 

What have you missed out on in life because you didn't take action?

What would you have achieved differently or sooner if you had taken action?

What would you say to your younger self now?

How does that make you feel?

Now, Remember a time when you were excited and curious about something coming your way. Get a picture in your mind and this time blow it up so it fills your mind. Recognise the feeling of excitement and curiosity in your body. Say to yourself the words that enhance the excitement. Maybe "This is going to be soooo good!" or whatever sounds right for you. 

Now, imagine taking that feeling of excitement and curiosity and applying the exact sense of excitement and curiosity to the moment you held yourself back. See yourself taking massive action instead of holding back. See yourself moving forward with confidence. Finally see yourself succeeding beyond your wildest dreams. 

What is different about your experience now?   

How does that make you feel? 

The power to create change is often just tiny adjustments. Finding the correct adjustment is the key. Putting it into practice is the action you need to take. Instead of reminding your self how you held back once up a time in a fairy tale version of you remember the excited curiosity that  will drive you forward.

At the other side of excited curiosity is something so unbelievably desirable you cant wait to get it. And on the other side of facing your fears are your wildest dreams.

To your success!


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Relationship Breakthrough Coach provides life coaching for men, women and couples in Mossley, Tameside, Uppermill, Saddleworth, and all surrounding areas. I also work with english speaking international clients via Skype and Zoom.

Life coaching is a journey of self discovery. Your journey starts with your next step. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the next step. The power of life coaching will unlock your personal power to overcome obstacles that show up while you get to work on your dreams.

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