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Merry Christmas 2021
December 21, 2021
Merry Christmas

Wow, where did summer go? In fact what happened to Autumn?

Here we are on the brink of the festive period.

How are you coping with the events that we see unfolding? It has been a tough year for many and yet there is still so much hope and positivity around. Its time to shake off old paradigms and embrace the new.

But before we do, remember to share Christmas with those you love. And if you cant do that remember to love those you share Christmas with.

Have a very Merry Christmas!

Life Coaching Insights

Today's life coaching insight comes directly from NLP "The map is not the territory" What this means is that your version of reality is unique only to you. Put it another way, your reality is not even true reality.

Is your head spinning yet?

This realisation can often lead to subtle yet incredible insights. What you once thought was a problem was really just a problem with your "thinking."

The trouble with our thinking is that conscious effort creates boundary conditions and limitations based upon our unique perception filters. Your filters are unique to you.

Firstly, you can only consciously think in words and language that are familiar with. Do you understand the language of immunology or quantum mechanics? Perhaps not. But if it were important to you you could learn, and expand your vocabulary thereby changing your map. But it would still not be the actual territory.

Secondly, your unconscious biases will direct your thinking, based upon your context and you may not even realise it.

Can you see already that the map you create is not equal to the territory?

Life Coaching Offers:

I have another exciting announcement to make this month! But first, did you download your free "Personal Power Plan?" Kickstart your New Year in the comfort of your own home! Get it right away via this link: Personal Power Plan
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It just keeps getting better and better. I have more huge announcements with brand new content pages and major revisions of old pages!
Ive also been researching some information on divorce and put a couple of new pages together:

Discover The Most Important Divorce Advice You Wished You Had Been Given

Five stages of divorce you need to understand before your divorce costs spiral out of control


Until Next Time...

Again, have a wonderful Christmas and a happy New Year! Wherever you are, I wish peace, happiness and good health for you and yours.

Thats all for this year. See you on the flip side.

love, always


The Relationship Breakthrough Coach

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